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Friday, July 23, 2010
Monday, January 18, 2010
Mo'Nique Wins Golden Globe: Actress One Step Closer to Oscar Gold
I just wanted to spread the word. If you did not know you should. Mo'Nique is a beautiful sista that represents the fashionable plus-sized woman to the fullest. For her to be commended for a role that is so out of her norm just shows the extent of her talent. And lets be real the woman is fierce. Oscar here we come :)
Share your feelings on Mo'Nique's Golden Globe.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
2010 Is Around The Corner
Oprah Winfrey to Leave Talk Show in 2011 - ABC News
This is just one news report on Oprah's announcement that has literally knocked a number people off their axis. I like the show but after this announcement I have come across people that absolutely love Oprah and are already morning the lost of the show. Since Oprah is a Curvy Sista, who has publicly shown her weight lost struggle I felt obligated to bring it up and see what the Curvy world has to say.
I personally will miss the show. Though I was not an avid watcher of the show, I loved many of her interviews and found the show to be quite entertaining most days. I loved the Friday format that she started in the summer (a kinda Oprah version of the View) and just loved watching this woman expand and grow before my eyes. But I will not miss Oprah because she will not be fading to black. With the kick off of OWN (Oprah Winfrey Network) in 2011 she will be in the the thick of modern media. This is actually the best time for her to end the show. It frees up time and resources for her network and now whatever she does under the OWN does not have to be negotiated with other media outlet. Oprah actually has her OWN thing now. I can not wait to see what is up next for the Oprah. Tell me what do you think.
The Curvy Online World Review - Big Gurl Fashion
But what I loved the most about Big Gurl Fashion is that she gives you prices and location so you know the damage before you walk away from your computer. I love looking at plus size fashion but most of the time I have no clue where to find the clothes unless I am in on the website for the store. And It is hard to compare items from one store to the next and really get a sense of what they would look like together. But Big Gurl Fashion gives you prices, stores and even website where you can find the entire outfit being showcased (that includes location of the accessories). Big Gurl Fashion puts all this together on one page so now you can see the items together and get a sense of what they may look like on you.
Now I will be honest with you since this is a review I have not liked every outfit that she has created. But that is a personal thing. What works for me may not work for you and vice versa. But I will say this. There is usually at least one item in every outfit that makes me think itch to go shopping for more. So in the end I am always satisfied.
So my Curvy Sisita before you get your shop on visit Big Gurl Fashion. She may have already put together right look for you and told you where to find it.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Worker's Comp Pay For Weight Loss Surgery - Look Out Another Excuse for Weight Discrimnation The Workplace
Well here is my pretty much dumbed down version of what I have read. Adam Childers was injured his back when a freezer door hit him on the job. At the time of the injury Adam was already over weight and a pack a day smoker. The back injury lead to extreme back and knee pains. Surgery was not recommended due to his weight so other methods of treatment were prescribed but were unsuccessful. Weight loss surgery was recommended as a precursor to the other recommended surgery for the work related injury. The Worker's Compensation Board in Indian ruled that the worker's pre-existing medical and health condition combined with the accident to create a single injury for which he is entitled to work comp benefits. This ruling was upheld by the Indiana courts because a preexisting condition is not a bar to benefits. For a better understanding of the case and the decision click on the links below.
- http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/breaking-wls-news/lap-band-surgery-to-be-covered-by-pizza-shop.html
- http://www.workerscompinsider.com/archives/001097.html
When researching this case I also found a few similar cases here is a link to one of them this one is in Oregon (http://news.opb.org/article/5714-court-rules-workers-comp-must-pay-weight-loss-surgery)
So now that you have the basics of the case what does that mean for us plus size people in the work place. Well the way I see it this ruling gives employers a reason to not hire a qualified plus size individual for fear of possible cost in both health care and possible worker's comp benefits. This decision has me worried about the repercussions. Fat Discrimination is becoming more and more acceptable. Though the plus size community as a whole is getting stronger and helping to build the self esteem (and wardrobe) of our community the general population still thinks it is OK to degrade someone because of their weight. Employers think about money first and why take the risk when study after study blames weight for every disease under the sun. It is cheaper to not take on the risk at all. Where does that leave us especially in an economy where jobs with or without benefits are hard to come by.
If employers are concerned you would think they would promote healthy living initiatives. Work on getting employee discounts to health clubs, day spas, restaurants with healthy menus, and such. Even give bonuses based on those making an effort to stay healthy by utilizing the programs and discounts you have initiated. You will be surprised how much people will do when given the incentive. And if you have employees considering weight loss surgery give them the time they need to make it happen. In the long run it will mean less doctors visits which will lessen the employers health care cost. As sensible as this may seem I do not see any of the employers that have reacted to this article mentioning anything of this nature. All I hear is outrage over the ruling. If they are so worried about Health Care Cost you would think they would work toward correcting the health care issues in the United States as a whole but that is a completely different discussion that I am choosing not to get into today.
I guess in the end I just wanted to put this out there, let people know what is going on and give you something to think about. Leave a comment and tell me how you feel about this case, the decision, or just my take on what I have read. Let me know what you think.
Saturday, October 24, 2009
ANexander Books Seeking Real Size Woman For Book Cover
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This book is going to be hot. Visit BBW Reviews Author Interview http://bbwreviews.blogspot.com/2009/10/interview-with-lavonda-howard-author-of.html and check out an interview with LaVonda Howrd ( The author of this Curvy Novels series)
Saturday, October 17, 2009
The Curvy Online World Review - Curvatude
There are so many things that really sang to me when I was exploring Curvatude. First and foremost the format of the site is bright and vibrant. It is very understated but well organized so you feel free to explore the blog and it's various links. And I just love the Cuvatude logo. It is classy and understated just like the rest of the site. I love how the blog's owner uses links and taps into popular media bringing you articles of interest to the curvy woman that you may not have found searching on your own. I am loving The Fab Five post that are filled with some interesting links. And the interviews are definitely on point and informative.
What else can I say. CURVATUDE is definitely a must see location in the Curvy Online world.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
The Curvy Online World Review
We are currently in the process of creating interview questions and would like your input. What would you like to know about the people in the plus size community that are doing big things. Let us know and we will do our best to get your questions answered.
Stay Tuned for more of The Curvy Online World Review. The Curvy World At Your Fingertips.
Sexy Ebony BBWS Curvy Online Review - Fat Heffalump
As I read the post I found myself completely engaged in her story. I especially enjoyed the Dealing with Douchebags post. Kath (the bloggers name) is so honest about her feelings during the incident she describes in this post. I felt her pain because I have been there. It was great to see justice reign supreme at the end of the post. I wanted to applaud. This was definitely one point for the fatties. I loved it. Want to know what I am talking about. Take a minute and visit Fat Heffalump. You will not be disappointed.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
PETA Insults The BBW Community
This link is to the article written in the Huffington Post.
In PETA's press release regarding this campaign they state
"A new PETA billboard campaign that was just launched in Jacksonville reminds people who are struggling to lose weight — and who want to have enough energy to chase a beach ball — that going vegetarian can be an effective way to shed those extra pounds that keep them from looking good in a bikini."
Are they actually serious. Do they really believe that insulting someone struggling with their weight issues is an effective motivator. Do they honestly belive that insulting people that are potential supports (big people like animals too) is an effective way of promoting their cause.
PETA is famous for campaigns that insult various groups in their efforts to fight for animal rights. They cater to the lowest of the low in an effort to get their point across. Well the only point being made with this campaign in my opinion is PETA has no love for the plus size community. What do you think. I sit here with my chicken wrap awaiting your opinion.
Monday, August 17, 2009
Dance Your Ass Off - I Just Don't Know
I am really torn. I actually like the concept. Combining the fun and activity of dancing with the weight loss process and then adding competition as a motivator will definitely bring in both contestants and audience. My problem is have we gone too far. I clearly admit I am not a reality show fan. My life has enough reality without watching someones hot mess on a TV screen. But in an effort to be objective I watched the episode and even got caught up in the competition. But when it was all over I still had to ask is it too much. I guess if it works for those involved so I will not knock it but I am just wondering if we have gone crazy with reality TV in general. Have we become so jaded that watching other people's issues is the only thing that entertains us. Have we forgotten that if these some individuals were looking for acting roles they would have a hard time finding a role that was not meant for the fat friend. I just don't know anymore.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
More To Love - Will You Be Watching
I have to admit even with my dislike for reality shows I am curious about this show. I doubt I will watch more than an episode or two since I don't watch much TV in general but this show really does intrigue me and I really want to see the men that end up as part of the love fest.
But when it is all said and done I am more interested in the general public reaction to the show. Will you be watching the show? What are your expectations? Is this show a plus or minus for the BBW Community as a whole? Let's get the discussion started.
Monday, February 9, 2009
BBWS Doing Their Thing
What Do You Want
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
I Cried
I really did cry tears if joy this morning. I am listening to Obama's speech as I type this and I am just choked up. History has been made tonight. The reality of this is hitting me as I look at my kids and pray that this man can begin the healing this country needs. We as a country have been devastated by our own hand and by natural disaster. With out vote many of us have laid the hope for a better future in his hand.
As happy as I am I still wonder what this will me for blacks in general. Will this be the excuse people will try to use to cover up the racism that still exist. Will the old black guard be able to give up the nonsense and support a man this man who is not catering to their agenda. How will this affect me and my kids down the road.
I really don't have any answers. What I do have today is hope. I hope I did not realize had been slipping away till it returned at about 11PM November 4Th. It is now about 5AM November 5Th and I have to get ready for work. Life keeps going as it always will. But today I have a little more hope in my heart. I honestly believe there is a man in the White House with the best interest of America at heart.
And yes there is a little doubt and fear. He still has to make it through 4 years of men and woman who know nothing but politics and have forgotten what they are suppose to really represent. But even that can not destroy the new glimmer of hope that Obama has created in my heart. The future looks brighter if not for me than for my sleeping angels.
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Letting Your Soul Be Heard
When we allow ourselves to be witnessed by another, we cannot help but be transformed by the experience. Whether we are sharing a personal experience, standing in front of friends to celebrate a special occasion, or expressing our unbridled joy or sorrow in front of a loved one, we are allowing ourselves to be seen and experienced in a very intimate way. Not only are we baring ourselves to someone else, but we are allowing that person to hold a very specific kind of space with us so this powerful act can take place. To be witnessed is to let ourselves be seen as we truly are in that moment.
Our friends and loved ones can easily be witnesses for us, if only we are brave enough to let them. Your next birthday may be the perfect occasion to experience this sacred act: Invite your friends and loved ones to your special day. During the celebration, stand in front of them and thank them for being there for you. Feel their gratitude, attention, warmth, and support, while noticing the sense of safety you feel as they surround you. If you feel inspired, share your innermost thoughts about the day and your life. You may be surprised at the feelings of peace and validation that arise within you, when you feel safe enough to go deep into your soul and share yourself with those you trust.
Anyone who has ever seen love, admiration, acceptance, or appreciation reflected in a friend or loved one's eyes knows how transformative that experience can be. When you bare yourself to another, you are giving them the gift of you and showing them that they also matter. In letting yourself be witnessed, you are letting others into your intimate space, stepping in the sacred container they have created for you, and creating a cauldron of positive affirmation, support, love, and goodwill that will stay with you forever.
Sharon
This article was taken from the Living Large Discussion archives so if you recognize it that is because it was on the website once before. Sharon was the editor of the Living Large Discussion section of the website and responsible for a good amount of the content of the previous format of thhe website. Please take a minute to let Sharon and the rest of us know what you think of this article.
Saturday, August 23, 2008
Sexy Ebony Has Not Been Forgotten
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Friday, May 23, 2008
Weight Discrimination
I could go on but a ranting is not the purpose of this post so I will end it here. Here are a few links with more information on this study and other interesting weight research. Please feel free to share your thoughts on any of there articles.
Weight bias rivals race prejudice
Study: Weight Discrimination Passes Gender, Race
Study: 'Weight-ism' More Widespread Than Racism
People often use food to cope with weight bias
Yale Study Shows Weight Bias Is As Prevalent As Racial Discrimination
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
The Image of the BBW
Now on to our actual blog.
BBWs take many shapes and sizes. With that in mind, a number of artist and entrepreneurs
have taken the BBW form and made it their own through art. These artist have different styles and different visions for the BBW form. What they all have in common is a appreciation for the curves that make a big girl special and unique.
One of my personal favorites is Nigel Morgan [http://www.nigelmorganart.com/]. I found Nigel some time ago when I was looking to revamp the website. I was not sure what I was looking for at the time but once I saw his work I just knew he had a vibe that would give our website a classy touch and feel. Let me tell you the brother has talent and an eye for the bbw form that just makes you say damn.
Another of my favorite BBW artist is JNESS [http://www.scarletbbwart.com/]. If you are looking for sexy BBW art you must check out this brother's work. Most of you have already seen it because it can be found all over the BBW community on websites, myspace and various online groups just to name a few locations. JNess's work features BBWS of various shapes and sizes and in his gallery you may even see pictures of the orginal model for the work. Trust me the site is worth even a quick visit.
Another artist with hot and sexy BBW images is CeeJay [http://ceejaysfinebbwart.bravepages.com/]. His art runs from you more classic images to the erotic all depicted in a way that emphasizes the BBW form in it's glory. You can even find some of CeeJay's work featured on the Sexy Ebony BBWS 4 Blkmen website. The flash banner highlighted on the website's banners and links page was created by CeeJay. If you have never seen the flash banner go to http://www.sexyebonybbws.com/banners.htm and check it out for yourself.
The list of BBW artist goes on. I featured these three on the bog because they are my personal favorites. But there are more artist out there, all with their own style and appeal. Here are a few other links if you are interested in seeing more of what is out there.
Large and Luscious BBW Art Galery
IANARDO's BBW Art Gallery
Booty Babe Art
Angela Bell Goode Designs
Stinkin' Steve's Art Gallery
MSXXL - Cafe Abundance Art Gallery
Virtual Len (A BBW Comic Strip)
So please take the time to visit these sites and see how others view the BBW form. And please contact the artist if you enjoy what you see. Many of the images are available for purchase and many of the artist are available for graphic design. In the end I just want those reading this post and viewing these sites to think about the image of the BBW. And remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.