2010 Is Around The Corner

2010 is right around the corner and I really want to start doing some interviews for the Sexy Ebony Blog. We need to connect with the Curvy sistas that are making things happen. I know I have been saying this for some time but other projects have been taking my time. But 2010 I will put a little more time into Sexy Ebony. Anyone interested in helping out, blogging or just interested give me a holla. I want to here from you.

Oprah Winfrey to Leave Talk Show in 2011 - ABC News

Oprah Winfrey to Leave Talk Show in 2011 - ABC News

This is just one news report on Oprah's announcement that has literally knocked a number people off their axis. I like the show but after this announcement I have come across people that absolutely love Oprah and are already morning the lost of the show. Since Oprah is a Curvy Sista, who has publicly shown her weight lost struggle I felt obligated to bring it up and see what the Curvy world has to say.

I personally will miss the show. Though I was not an avid watcher of the show, I loved many of her interviews and found the show to be quite entertaining most days. I loved the Friday format that she started in the summer (a kinda Oprah version of the View) and just loved watching this woman expand and grow before my eyes. But I will not miss Oprah because she will not be fading to black. With the kick off of OWN (Oprah Winfrey Network) in 2011 she will be in the the thick of modern media. This is actually the best time for her to end the show. It frees up time and resources for her network and now whatever she does under the OWN does not have to be negotiated with other media outlet. Oprah actually has her OWN thing now. I can not wait to see what is up next for the Oprah. Tell me what do you think.

The Curvy Online World Review - Big Gurl Fashion

It is review time again and this review is for all of our Curvy Fashionistas on a budget. If your goal is to look curvy and hot while not killing your wallet visit Big Gurl Fashion. This plus size diva on a budget loves the outfits she has put together with accessories (because what is an outgit without its accessories). The outfits are fashionable timely and can be tweeked to fit your personal style.


But what I loved the most about Big Gurl Fashion is that she gives you prices and location so you know the damage before you walk away from your computer. I love looking at plus size fashion but most of the time I have no clue where to find the clothes unless I am in on the website for the store. And It is hard to compare items from one store to the next and really get a sense of what they would look like together. But Big Gurl Fashion gives you prices, stores and even website where you can find the entire outfit being showcased (that includes location of the accessories). Big Gurl Fashion puts all this together on one page so now you can see the items together and get a sense of what they may look like on you.


Now I will be honest with you since this is a review I have not liked every outfit that she has created. But that is a personal thing. What works for me may not work for you and vice versa. But I will say this. There is usually at least one item in every outfit that makes me think itch to go shopping for more. So in the end I am always satisfied.

So my Curvy Sisita before you get your shop on visit Big Gurl Fashion. She may have already put together right look for you and told you where to find it.

Worker's Comp Pay For Weight Loss Surgery - Look Out Another Excuse for Weight Discrimnation The Workplace

That's right folks. I personally am not very happy about this ruling. Since I read about this case through a twitter post from CURVATUDE (thanks for the heads up) I have been searching the web reading articles trying to figure out why exactly this was done and getting a feel for the reactions to this ruling.

Well here is my pretty much dumbed down version of what I have read. Adam Childers was injured his back when a freezer door hit him on the job. At the time of the injury Adam was already over weight and a pack a day smoker. The back injury lead to extreme back and knee pains. Surgery was not recommended due to his weight so other methods of treatment were prescribed but were unsuccessful. Weight loss surgery was recommended as a precursor to the other recommended surgery for the work related injury. The Worker's Compensation Board in Indian ruled that the worker's pre-existing medical and health condition combined with the accident to create a single injury for which he is entitled to work comp benefits. This ruling was upheld by the Indiana courts because a preexisting condition is not a bar to benefits. For a better understanding of the case and the decision click on the links below.

• http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/breaking-wls-news/lap-band-surgery-to-be-covered-by-pizza-shop.html
• http://www.workerscompinsider.com/archives/001097.html

When researching this case I also found a few similar cases here is a link to one of them this one is in Oregon (http://news.opb.org/article/5714-court-rules-workers-comp-must-pay-weight-loss-surgery)

So now that you have the basics of the case what does that mean for us plus size people in the work place. Well the way I see it this ruling gives employers a reason to not hire a qualified plus size individual for fear of possible cost in both health care and possible worker's comp benefits. This decision has me worried about the repercussions. Fat Discrimination is becoming more and more acceptable. Though the plus size community as a whole is getting stronger and helping to build the self esteem (and wardrobe) of our community the general population still thinks it is OK to degrade someone because of their weight. Employers think about money first and why take the risk when study after study blames weight for every disease under the sun. It is cheaper to not take on the risk at all. Where does that leave us especially in an economy where jobs with or without benefits are hard to come by.

If employers are concerned you would think they would promote healthy living initiatives. Work on getting employee discounts to health clubs, day spas, restaurants with healthy menus, and such. Even give bonuses based on those making an effort to stay healthy by utilizing the programs and discounts you have initiated. You will be surprised how much people will do when given the incentive. And if you have employees considering weight loss surgery give them the time they need to make it happen. In the long run it will mean less doctors visits which will lessen the employers health care cost. As sensible as this may seem I do not see any of the employers that have reacted to this article mentioning anything of this nature. All I hear is outrage over the ruling. If they are so worried about Health Care Cost you would think they would work toward correcting the health care issues in the United States as a whole but that is a completely different discussion that I am choosing not to get into today.

I guess in the end I just wanted to put this out there, let people know what is going on and give you something to think about. Leave a comment and tell me how you feel about this case, the decision, or just my take on what I have read. Let me know what you think.

ANexander Books Seeking Real Size Woman For Book Cover

Anexander Books is looking for a Hot, Sexy, Beautiful "Real Size" Woman to grace the cover of Vonda Howard's erotic novel D-Cup Divas~Book 2 / Rossalyn. Visit www.anexanderbooks.com for contest rules and details.
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This book is going to be hot. Visit BBW Reviews Author Interview http://bbwreviews.blogspot.com/2009/10/interview-with-lavonda-howard-author-of.html and check out an interview with LaVonda Howrd ( The author of this Curvy Novels series)

The Curvy Online World Review - Curvatude

Let me start this post by saying I love twitter. Twitter is one of the best resources I have found to tap into the Plus Size World Online. And it was on twitter that I found CURVATUDE. Curvatude is an awesome website dedicated to "All Things Plus Size With An Attitude." The post on Curvatude touch on topics of great interest to women in general but have just a bit of a slant so they focus on the Curvy readers.

There are so many things that really sang to me when I was exploring Curvatude. First and foremost the format of the site is bright and vibrant. It is very understated but well organized so you feel free to explore the blog and it's various links. And I just love the Cuvatude logo. It is classy and understated just like the rest of the site. I love how the blog's owner uses links and taps into popular media bringing you articles of interest to the curvy woman that you may not have found searching on your own. I am loving The Fab Five post that are filled with some interesting links. And the interviews are definitely on point and informative.

What else can I say. CURVATUDE is definitely a must see location in the Curvy Online world.

The Curvy Online World Review

The Sexy Ebony BBWS 4 Blkmen Blog's goal is to bring the Curvy Online world to you direct and personal. To make this happen we will be Reviewing websites and blogs and cater to a plus size audience. We would also like to interview members of the plus size community that are doing big things that you need to know about. If you know of a blog or website we should check out please let us know. Is there a person we need to interview drop us a line so we can contact them.

We are currently in the process of creating interview questions and would like your input. What would you like to know about the people in the plus size community that are doing big things. Let us know and we will do our best to get your questions answered.

Stay Tuned for more of The Curvy Online World Review. The Curvy World At Your Fingertips.

Sexy Ebony BBWS Curvy Online Review - Fat Heffalump

Fat Heffalump is blog created by one fabulous member of the plus size bloggerphere to create a positive, empowering place for fatties and friends/family of fatties (a description taken directly from the blog's author). And let me tell you she has done it with style and flair. Filled with interesting and enlightening information Fat Heffalump is an open and honest blog discussing various topic of interest to those within the plus size community.


As I read the post I found myself completely engaged in her story. I especially enjoyed the Dealing with Douchebags post. Kath (the bloggers name) is so honest about her feelings during the incident she describes in this post. I felt her pain because I have been there. It was great to see justice reign supreme at the end of the post. I wanted to applaud. This was definitely one point for the fatties. I loved it. Want to know what I am talking about. Take a minute and visit Fat Heffalump. You will not be disappointed.

PETA Insults The BBW Community

A recent billboard campaign lauched in Jacksonville, FL by PETA depicts a plus size woman in a bikini with the slogan Save The Whales written in large letters and in smaller red print is written Lose The Blubber. Go Vegetarian. Yes folks this is not a joke. Here is a link to one of the articles I read on this particular billboard.

PETA's New "Save The Whales" Billboard Takes Aim At Fat Women
This link is to the article written in the Huffington Post.

In PETA's press release regarding this campaign they state

"A new PETA billboard campaign that was just launched in Jacksonville reminds people who are struggling to lose weight — and who want to have enough energy to chase a beach ball — that going vegetarian can be an effective way to shed those extra pounds that keep them from looking good in a bikini."

Are they actually serious. Do they really believe that insulting someone struggling with their weight issues is an effective motivator. Do they honestly belive that insulting people that are potential supports (big people like animals too) is an effective way of promoting their cause.

PETA is famous for campaigns that insult various groups in their efforts to fight for animal rights. They cater to the lowest of the low in an effort to get their point across. Well the only point being made with this campaign in my opinion is PETA has no love for the plus size community. What do you think. I sit here with my chicken wrap awaiting your opinion.

Dance Your Ass Off - I Just Don't Know

I just saw an episode of Dance Your Ass Off today and I really don't know what to think. For anyone that has not seen the show here is a clip to give you a taste of what the show is about. (This is not the episode I watched just a clip I happen to like.)

I am really torn. I actually like the concept. Combining the fun and activity of dancing with the weight loss process and then adding competition as a motivator will definitely bring in both contestants and audience. My problem is have we gone too far. I clearly admit I am not a reality show fan. My life has enough reality without watching someones hot mess on a TV screen. But in an effort to be objective I watched the episode and even got caught up in the competition. But when it was all over I still had to ask is it too much. I guess if it works for those involved so I will not knock it but I am just wondering if we have gone crazy with reality TV in general. Have we become so jaded that watching other people's issues is the only thing that entertains us. Have we forgotten that if these some individuals were looking for acting roles they would have a hard time finding a role that was not meant for the fat friend. I just don't know anymore.

More To Love - Will You Be Watching

On July 28th the series premiere of More To Love will air. The unique twist to this reality show is that it will feature plus size women as they seek love and happiness. Here is the Promo for the show below.




I have to admit even with my dislike for reality shows I am curious about this show. I doubt I will watch more than an episode or two since I don't watch much TV in general but this show really does intrigue me and I really want to see the men that end up as part of the love fest.

But when it is all said and done I am more interested in the general public reaction to the show. Will you be watching the show? What are your expectations? Is this show a plus or minus for the BBW Community as a whole? Let's get the discussion started.

BBWS Doing Their Thing

Are you a BBW with something going on. Would you like the entire Sexy Ebony BBW community to know about you and your business, or your activities. Then let me know I would love to showcase you on both our website and our blog. I would like to start putting a face to the Sexy Ebony BBW community and I need your help to make it happen. Anyone interested can contact me at info@sexyebonybbws.com for more information.

What Do You Want

It is 2009 and Sexy Ebony BBWS 4 Blkmen has been pretty quite. The blog has been empty and you can hear a pin drop in our yahoo groups. So the question I ask is where is everyone. This is nothing new. Life goes on and people live their lives and do their thing but I have to wonder if lack of interest in the group is due to the fact that the group is not providing something you need. I am considering closing our subgroups and sending invites to our main group. With the lack of conversations what is the point in having multiple groups what conversation that occurs can happen in our main group. Does ANYONE EVEN CARE. I ask this in all seriousness because I really want to know. We constantly ask the group what do they want. We try to generate conversation we constantly add new members hoping that someone somewhere will say something and maybe spark a bit of conversation. I can't do it alone. I am a working mother of twins about to embark on some major life changes so time is limited. I would really like to know what can be done to keep the group that I love alive. All suggestions are welcome. You can post to the blog send your message through the group or send an email to info@sexyebonybbws.com I don't care how you send the message just as long as you send it and help a sista out. I want to know what you think.